10 Kick-Ass Strategies Meet the Candidate-in-Law

10 Kick-Ass Strategies Meet the Candidate-in-Law

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Met for the first time with future in-laws would make excited, embarrassed, and even panic. Well, the best way to convince them is to give a good first impression. The trick?1. Dressed charming and politeThat is, avoid torn jeans and faded T-shirt, tank top, sexy, or a leather jacket for men. Do not wear too short skirts, tight shirts, sexy, super tall heels as well. Remember, this is not the right time for the fashion show. Comb hair with a neat, clean ears and nails, brush your teeth. Bottom line: look simple, clean, neat, and a little bit conservative.2. Find informationAsk your spouse, what is the most disliked by his father and mother. For example, if the father did not like the smoke, leave your cigarettes in the car. Or if she does not like boxing, avoid talking about the topic of boxing.3. IngratiateEngaged with someone different cultures? At the first meeting, a must for you to do what you can do to show that you respect the culture / traditions partner. Learn as much as possible about their traditions, especially what you should do the first time they met. Do you have to shake hands, bow, kiss the hand, or kiss on the cheek. Ask your partner, how original language if you want to say "Nice to meet you" and "How". Say it right and good and memorized by heart.4. Being politeIt means saying "yes" correctly instead of "uh-huh", and do not forget to say "thank you" or "please" at the right time. Do not burp or moving the body with no / less polite.Sit neat and help clean up dishes / glasses were dirty when you know they do not have a housekeeper. Remember, the little things you do can greatly imprint on the hearts of future in-laws!5. Greetings rightDo not make a mistake in mentioning the word greeting. The best thing is to ask your partner, greeting word is good, true, and is liked by both parents. Do they prefer to be called "father / mother", "Uncle / Auntie", or even first names if they are from a foreign country.6. Bring somethingWe recommend that you do not come empty-handed. This does not mean you have to bring something expensive and luxurious items. When you bring something homemade cakes such, it will increase your value in the eyes of prospective in-laws.7. Show interestInstinctively, everyone would prefer someone else if they preferred. And be attentive, interested and alert. The trick? Note the body language right. While talking, look at the eyes of prospective in-laws to show that you pay attention to what he said, sitting a good (not too stiff or too tight and not too casual), and give a nod at the right time.Keep your eyes to stare darting around the room. Do not stomping, do not go back and forth looking at his watch, and do not sit with your legs open.8. Avoid strange and impolite topicsAvoid topics such as politics, religion, or anything controversial. Unless the prospective in-laws did want to talk about the topic. On the other hand, you could have "tested" by them. Therefore, do not talk if you do not know, the future in-laws were on which side.Also, avoid too joking that lead or offensive pornography, tell your family kitchen, and a very personal about yourself. Patience, all this was not the time.9. Be polite, sweet, and goodShow friendly attitude, polite, and not excessive in the future in-laws, and also to his siblings, his housekeeper. Good attitude you show has a value to parents.10. Do not contrived and do not pretendBe yourself. Do not try to imitate the attitudes of others. Show your personality in a little dose and save. Keep your tone of voice. Do not forget to also sit neatly and well.No less important is the set breath in such a way. Do not worry, everyone else was in the room with you, that is in transition. The problem is, there are Ajab forming a new family (and your partner), also there are going to "lose" one member of his family (future in-laws).It is now ready to face in-law, is not it?